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Low Appreciation, High Discrimination

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Hi Folks, information openness encourages human thinking to be more open. If previously women were not allowed to work because they had to be in the kitchen, today women can have careers and work outside the home. 

In addition, there is also a trend ‘Househusband’ that has started to be heard in Indonesia. This further proves that human thinking is now more open and accepting of things that are different from before.


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However, the gap and discrimination against workers based on gender still occur. Many companies or jobs still view women with disdain. Although these women work professionally, they are still rarely promoted or given raises as a form of appreciation. Added to that, the culture of patriarchy still strongly influences companies, resulting in a greater number of men than women in management structures. 

By definition, gender discrimination is a condition where there is an imbalance and injustice in the social structure, which makes men and women victims of it. But it cannot be denied that gender discrimination is most vulnerable for women. This occurs because of deeply rooted beliefs in the social structure of society. 

 

Forms of Gender Discrimination

  • Marginalization

The process, attitudes, and behaviors of society and even the state that lead to the exclusion of women. Example: Women are rarely promoted as branch heads or division heads because these positions are often held by men who are considered to possess stronger leadership characteristics compared to women.

  • Subordination

A belief that one gender is more important than the other. This causes the 'second-class' gender to be frequently exploited and their voices are rarely heard. Example: Jobs performed by women such as secretaries or kindergarten teachers are considered lower than jobs performed by men such as lecturers and soldiers, which causes the wages received by women to be lower as well.

  • Stereotypes

A negative label assigned to a particular gender. Example: Women should engage in household activities or domestic matters. Even though women work outside, they are still regarded with disdain because they are considered inferior and their income is comparatively small compared to men.

  • Double burden for women

A form of gender discrimination in households that is usually imposed on women. Example: Although many women are now working, when they return home, they still have to do housework. Meanwhile, men rarely help with household tasks, meaning that the burden on women can be considered greater.

 

Non-Friendly Companies for Women

Based on data from IBCWE (Indonesia Business Coalition for Women), IGCN (Indonesia Global Compact Network) and UN Women in 2017-2018 it shows that women in Indonesia have the lowest percentage of employment at 47.8% compared to other Asian countries like Vietnam, Thailand, and Singapore. Meanwhile, the percentage of men working in Indonesia reaches 79.5%. This data clarifies the existing gap between female and male workers. 

Although women are given the opportunity to work, from about 50 companies that were the subject of research, only 10% of the companies are willing to promote women to board-level positions. Moreover, only 68% of companies provide lactation rooms, offer educational programs, and training for female employees aimed at improving their skills. 

After discussing discrimination based on research from 50 companies, now let's try to expand the discussion to the national level. Here are three points that are evidence of gender discrimination in the workplace, particularly in Indonesia:

  • Maternity leave

ILO has established that maternity leave should be at least 126 days, but Indonesian Law No. 13/2003 on labor, Article 82, only allows women to take maternity leave for 90 days.

  • Wage gap between men and women

Although according to Indonesian Law No. 87/1957 which states that there should be equal wage payments across all genders at the same job levels. However, in reality, labor force surveys show that there is a wage gap, where women's wages are 30.8% lower than men's wages. This discrepancy widens when working in urban areas and in several public sectors.

  • Double standards

In Indonesia, there is still a mindset and belief that women are better off doing household activities and do not need to work outside like men generally do. 

 

Gender Discrimination Policies in Indonesia

The issue of discrimination in companies is not new, but it has indeed been happening for a long time. Is the government trying to stay silent? No, the government is trying to regulate this in the law. According to Stonewall Global Workplace, general discrimination in employment is regulated in Law No. 13 of 2003, Articles 5 and 6. 

This article states that gender discrimination is a violation. In the book Equality and non-discrimination in the workplace in Indonesia by Bill Salter (2012), it also discusses protection for women who are victims of gender discrimination, especially in the workplace.

In addition, there are regulations in Law No. 80 of 1957 and Convention No. 111, Article 1.(3); and Convention No. 111, Article 2(b) that discusses measures to eliminate discrimination in employment and positions that must be implemented at all existing levels, before, during, and after employment, including: 

  • Access to education and guidance and vocational training

  • Access to jobs and utilization of employment services

  • Access to certain positions

  • Working conditions

  • Equal pay for work of equal value

  • Career development based on individual characteristics, experience, abilities, and perseverance

  • Job security

  • After retirement

It seems that the previous regulations are not sufficient to eliminate gender discrimination, particularly against women. So besides the laws mentioned above, Indonesia has affirmative actions as stated in Law No. 12 of 2003 regarding elections. This law also states that a 30% quota for women to participate in political parties is allowed. However, unfortunately, this is still in stark contrast in the workforce, leading many women to be undervalued and become victims of discrimination.

Hopefully, there will be fewer news stories about discrimination because our struggle is not over!

 

By: Vanessa

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Source:

  1. https://www.indonesiagcn.org/files/1/publication%20IGCN/Study_on_the_Application_of_WEPs_in_Top_50_Companies_in_Indonesia.pdf

  2. https://toolsfortransformation.net/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/Kesetaraan-dan-non-diskriminasi-di-tempat-kerja.pdf (pp. 71-74)

  3. https://gendernews88.wordpress.com/2010/09/07/konsep-dan-teori-gender/

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