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Does 'Marital Status' Make Work Unfocused?

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"They said I couldn't work there because I'm married."

"They say that if I'm single, I can work overtime all the time."

 

Those are a few remarks from workers that I have heard from a friend. 

 

It turns out that there are indeed many forms of discrimination in the workplace. One of them is marital status. Some companies always open opportunities for fresh graduates claiming enthusiasm and passion to work are still high. But who would have thought, secretly this discriminates against workers. 

Since when did marital status affect work performance? Apparently ‘marital status’ can make people lose focus at work 😔

This marital status discrimination is also depicted in a South Korean film titled Kim Ji-Young, Born 1982 (2019), which is an adaptation of the novel "82nyeonsaeng Kimjiyoung". This film tells the story of Kim Ji-Young, a woman who initially worked in a public relations agency, then got married and became pregnant. 

After this new life, Kim Ji-Young was forced to quit her job and took on the role of a full-time housewife. Her status and daily activities caused Kim Ji-Young to experience many things, leading to a loss of her identity.

 

In Neil Y. Pacamalan's thesis titled Sex Matters: A Comparative Analysis of Work Discrimination in Indonesia and the Philippines, he states that employers prefer to hire single women over those who are married. According to a study by Wolf, single women are relatively cheaper to maintain than those who are married. 

It also mentions real examples of discrimination occurring in the advertising sector. One company is looking for a secretary to the President Director, with requirements of being under 25 years old, height of 1.60 m, and unmarried. Hmm, it turns out that marital status can indeed be a curse for applicants.

 

Also read: Discrimination in Job Ads

 

In the United States, even though there is a law that grants maternity leave to women for 3 months, the government acknowledges that pregnant women are often fired or replaced by others. So, some companies require women to sign a statement that they will not get pregnant during their employment contract. The International Labour Organization (ILO) once released a report before International Women's Day, stating that Indonesia has recorded the largest increase in unemployed women in Southeast Asia over a decade since the 1997 financial crisis.


When Marital Status Affects Work

This marital status refers to us who are single, married, divorced, widowed, separated, or living together with a partner without ties. It turns out that all of this can be a basis for companies to assess our readiness and work performance, how sad.

An example that occurs is:

  • There is a dance studio that offers classes only for those who are still single.

  • A manager who will not promote a woman who has just married because they think this woman will focus on her family rather than her career.

  • The company gives bonuses to employees who are married but does not do so for single employees.

  • A company offers married employees to work in remote locations with guaranteed allowances and family visitation leave. 

  • Even paying male workers more than female workers, assuming that males are the heads of families.

 

According to research from Victorian Equal Opportunity and Human Rights Commission Annual Report 2018-2019, 57.7% of complaint reports are about discrimination based on marital status in employment.


So That Marital Status Does Not Interfere with Work

During the interview, interviewers should also not ask or request information regarding the applicant's marital status. Likewise, conveying information about status implicitly is not advised since it could lead interviewers to open further questions about marital status. The correct way to avoid questions, intentionally or unintentionally, is for companies to create an interview structure for recruiters or managers.

That is one form of discrimination that is actually rarely realized, as this status can change at any time. I hope we all become more sensitive to forms of discrimination that are starting to be considered normal.

 

By: Vregina

Source:
https://www.humanrights.vic.gov.au/for-individuals/marital-status/ 

https://smallbusiness.chron.com/labor-laws-marital-status-discrimination-61346.htm
http://www.etd.ceu.hu/2008/pacamalan_neil.pdf 

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Apakah aksi berani seperti ini fiksi dan hanya bisa dilakukan di dalam adegan-adegan film? Tentu, tidak. 

Menjadi Saksi yang Berani Beraksi

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Lecturers so far seem to have no problems, maybe it’s because we are in denial. We pretend to be okay. So it’s like (we need) awareness that we are not okay, awareness that something needs to change, awareness that we are the working class who are very likely to be oppressed in our work fulfillment relationships.” – Nabiyla Risfa Azzati, representative of the Lecturer Welfare Research Team (2023)


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“If my life is used as an example, lecturers are fine. But there are many other lecturers who are not okay,” she said. 

 

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She compared it to other countries that generally do not value lecturer salaries at minimum wage. The reason is that lecturer salaries there are negotiated. In Indonesia, sector-based negotiations are nearly non-existent, so the Lecturer Welfare Research Team cannot answer how to provide an ideal standard for lecturers. 

 

Comparing Lecturer Salaries with Neighboring Countries

The Lecturer Welfare Research Team attempted to compare lecturer salaries in Indonesia with comparable neighboring countries, namely Malaysia and Thailand. The results are quite shocking. The average lecturer salary in Malaysia is Rp 20-25 million and in Thailand is Rp 38-42 million. Nabiyla revealed that initially, the team felt those figures were not suitable for this job because they were too high. However, the main problem is that Indonesia does not have a standard for lecturer salaries. 

“The comparison with Malaysia and Thailand should not be a very far comparison, but seeing that we currently do not have a standard, if we were to present at the Ministry of Education and Culture, we’d face ridicule. It’s strange how we don’t have standards; we are even afraid to mention a figure that isn’t too high at all, it’s actually quite normal,” said Nabiyla. 

 

Lecturers are Workers Too: Fighting Not to be Oppressed

The survey results from the Lecturer Welfare Research Team also show that the lecturer profession is a labor profession. Therefore, it is necessary to fight to not be oppressed. 

“Call us professional workers, call us white-collar workers, call us knowledge producers, whatever the name, at the end of the day, we are workers, we are laborers,” said Nabiyla. 

 

Source:

  • Lecturer Welfare Research Team. (2023, May 4). How much do lecturers earn? Here are the results of the first national survey mapping the welfare of academics in Indonesia. The Conversation. https://theconversation.com/berapa-gaji-dosen-berikut-hasil-survei-nasional-pertama-yang-memetakan-kesejahteraan-akademisi-di-indonesia-203854 accessed on May 21, 2023.  

  • Interview with the representative of the Lecturer Welfare Research Team, Nabiyla Risfa Azzati. May 17, 2023. 

 

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